Frequently Asked Questions
What will therapy look like with Abbie Rolf, MA?
This depends largely on who is seeking therapy and what they're looking for. I believe in a few absolute truths about therapy - it is a sacred journey on which I am grateful to be part of, everything you share in therapy is a gift, and we can't expect to make real progress unless you're vulnerable and honest. The journey is yours, I happen to have a few extra tools to help you write a more effective roadmap than what you've been following so far.
Session time will be divided between sharing what brings you to therapy - what challenges you're facing and the successes you've had, determining where your challenges are coming from (internal or external) and collaboratively problem-solving ways to more effectively meet your needs.
I'm not one to sugar-coat or beat around the bush and I genuinely care about improving your wellbeing. If you're minimizing your needs or spinning a story (because let's be real - we all do it sometimes to look better), I'm going to call you on your BS. If you're talking crap about yourself or putting yourself down, we're going to talk about it, because I believe you deserve whatever a positive outcome looks like for you with a healthy sense of inherent self-worth.
Because research shows one of the main predictors to therapeutic success is the relationship between the therapist and client, making sure we're the right fit is essential for the process. I offer free 20 minute face-to-face consultations for potential clients who desire a meet-and-greet. For clients who prefer to "jump right in", I offer 90 minute intake sessions. Intakes are about information gathering to best collaboratively plan for our future sessions.
What is your theoretical orientation and what will this mean for our therapy?
Essentially, I draw from Psychodynamic Theory, Rational-Emotive Behavior Theory, and Attachment-Based Theory.
You may be saying, "Okay - well what the heck does that mean?".
This means that I believe:
- The successes and failures of our early childhood relationships shaped the way we approach relationships as an adult, even in so much as trying to recreate relationships to "do them better".
- Our life experiences shape our worldview which shapes the way we think. The way we think then shapes the way we feel and behave in response to difficulties in life. The result of how we respond, the consequences whether positive or negative, informs our worldview and the cycle continues.
- It is important that as humans we have a close and trusting relationship with at least one other person, on whom we can rely for emotional support. The way we form bonds with others as adults depends largely on our early life experiences with our caregivers. The way we connect with others as adults can affect a variety of aspects of our life including school, work, and intimate relationships.
When are your appointments?
I'm in the office Tuesdays/Thursdays 10am to 6pm and Wednesdays from 11am to 8pm.
Availability may vary week to week.
Do you take insurance?
As a Registered Mental Health Counselor Intern I'm unable to be paneled with any commercial insurance companies. So, the short answer is no. However, if someone has insurance and is unable to afford my full rate, I'm happy to discuss a negotiated rate in order to increase access to services.
What are your rates?
Individual Therapy Intake (90 minutes) - $100
Individual Therapy (60 minutes) - $65
Relational Therapy Intake (90 minutes) - $135
Relational Therapy (60 minutes) - $85
Gender-Affirming Assessment & Referral Letter (60 minutes) - FREE
How can I pay for services?
I accept cash, check, card, and HSA cards. I utilize the HIPAA-secure payment system IvyPay to process client credit/debit cards. A link to the app will be sent to clients prior to their first session in order to secure their appointment.